Desc: With or Without You: Directed by Ramsay S. James, Tom Sands. With Morgan ., Sarah Louisa Allen, Ben Cole, Riane Eisler. Tom Sands and Ramsay S. James track down the foremost experts on gender perception to find out how men are thinking about women and what effect this is having on our world. They aim to demonstrate that 'perception selects and makes the world we see'.